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JANUARY/FEBRUARY 2006
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IN THIS ISSUE: To Love or not To Love Better than Chocolate What Makes a Perfect Bedroom |
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| If you type the word "Love" in any search engine, you will come up with Love calculators, Love tests, and, of course, ads for dating services at the top of the list. Even though Valentine's day is the next "must celebrate" event for many people, what I want to focus on in this issue is Your Love Relationship with Yourself. Not only because the only way to dramatically improve your Love life is to experience more Love towards yourself, but also because you will attract a much higher quality of people, situations and resources once you start accepting and loving yourself more. You will also notice an improvement in "all your relations" - with your children, parents, friends and co-workers. In feng shui terms, the real test of loving yourself is to honestly evaluate the state of your bedroom (with the bathroom being second on the list.) Yes, of course every part of your home speaks about you, but from many years of consulting I know that only bedrooms - the most intimate space where no "outsiders" are usually allowed - truly speak of your level of love towards yourself. |
 "As remarkable as it may seem, all features of a flower including its color, shape and fragrance combine to form a 'frequency' that acts as an antidote to unbalanced emotional states. Flowers appear to have been divinely placed on Earth for the great healing purpose of displacing negative subconscious memories and beliefs most people harbor, or for filling voids in us where we have emotional chasms." (Dr. Brent Davis) |
| Are you ready for a genuine and deeply personal commitment to love, honour and accept yourself? If you are, read on (and if you are not, just meditate on the fact that all your painful relationships and Valentine's day dramas are only reflecting back to you your own inability to love yourself. If you cannot love yourself for who you are, how can you possibly really love another?) Here is a little "checklist" for your bedroom, just 3 simple questions looking for your honest answers: 1. Do you like all the items that surround you in your bedroom? 2. When you wake up in the morning do you feel happy with what you see? 3. Before falling asleep, do you feel "cocooned" and "nurtured"? (with or without a partner) If you answered "No" to any of these questions, do set aside some time to create a clear plan on how can you start feeling and expressing self-love by creating a nurturing and sensual bedroom. Now is the best time to focus on it, as we are in the darkest, most Yin season when it is best to slow down, get plenty of rest and discover what is lying dormant inside of you. You are now planting the seeds that will grow in the new year, so it is worth taking the time and planting the best! .:: Click to Buy Crystals for Feng Shui, Healing and Decor purposes: Rose Quartz for love and healing of emotional traumas, Hematite for grounding and protection, Clear Quartz for clarity and more! You can place them in a bowl on your night stand, group them to complement a decor setting or top the soil in your favorite house plants. Crystals have been used for centuries because of their strong healing energies. |
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What Makes a Perfect Bedroom
What makes a bedroom perfect? Here are some basic feng shui guidelines: A relaxing, nurturing, "away from it all" feel. By the sound of it, this definitely excludes TV, computer or exercise equipment.Fresh air, sensual/comforting scents, good lighting (candlelight the best) and a treat for your tactile senses (natural fibers like high quality cotton, silk, flannel, etc)
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A "good looking" and well-balanced bed. This means your bed is easily approachable from both sides, has two bedside tables (one on each side) and is not in a direct line with the door. A good mattress is very important, as are good sheets and a solid headboard. Colors, Images and various Decor objects that reflect one clear intent: a strong flow of the energy of Love. The idea of a perfect bedroom may bring different images to different people, but they will all have one thing in common - PLEASURE and DREAMING as the keywords. .::
More info on feng shui for bedrooms: :: Can BEDROOM DECOR influence YOUR SEX LIFE? Read the past issue (scroll down to the Q & A section) :: Make ROOM FOR LOVE Read the article |
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